If you want to copy multiple files, keep the permission, and want to exclude multiple files from being copied this can be done with the following code:
tar cp --exclude-from=$EXCLUDE $FROMDIR | (cd $DESTDIR ; tar xpv)
$EXCLUDE contains the file that contains the folders and files that shall be exluded. It can be created and filled with
EXCLUDE="exclude.txt"
touch $EXCLUDE
echo...